Answer me

What will you do to a friend that "luo jing xia si" (drop stones when you are inside the well)---- I supposed that is the meaning.

He was my kind of good friend. Maybe I've mistakenly thought he was one. But he was after me while having a 3 years long girlfriend. I rejected and rejected, he kept calling for the terms of friend. A good friend. Well, that guy gave me quite an impression. And because he was one of my teacher's son, i wouldn't want to provoke him. For I was single at the time, i answer almost all of his called. Told him about my history, family stuff when he asked. He was pity, sad. And I remembered this guy told me, no matter what happened, he will do whatever he can to protect me, as a friend.

Later when we get closer, I asked him. Hey, what if i accepted you to be my boyfriend...what will you do to your girlfriend. 3 years isn't short. He explained...he said he wouldn't want to risk. If i accepted him, only he will break up with his gf. He keep on saying that, his gf was only a companion, no love. And it will happen for sure. Just one day.

It happens that my ex-bf that time later, was his friend. And he becomes some sort of our matchmaker unintentionally. He was sad. We were helpless. But then, when something happened on us, well, nobody is to blame when a relationship goes wrong rite? Okay~ my ex blamed alot on me...really like everything? And he scolded me on my blog through comments. I take it. My friend, my ex- friend...the so called "will protect me" added to his comment, sided him, scolded me.

And worse is...he called me like a good friend again. Explaining, he will need to 'act' in front of him, cause they were childhood friend. Worse still, he said all kind of bad words in front of me about him. Say, they were friends till now because he have got some kind of authority. Because of his(my ex) family. HAH. funny

Now, they were still good friend if not best friend. And, he is still with his gf.

I've stop taking his call for quite sometimes. For months...giving reason, didn't hear the hp ring, or going out or outside when i picked up. Guess he got my meaning. He stoped calling. I wondered what should I do when he call again.

I think he is cheap.