Friday, December 15, 2006

You are good or bad

Today when the movie i was watching asked...

"...Ask yourself...are you a good person or a bad person"

There!

Is that everything JUST a good and a bad can be defined in a person? Definately no.

But, in your own dictionary of good and bad, how do you classify yourself?

Answer yourself HONESTLY. To admit either you are good or bad, isn't an easy job.

Because...we have to be responsible only to our own self.

Afterall, we are matured enough to clearly define what is good and what is bad. Have we fulfill all requirements of good OR bad? We know the requirements. Of course we knew.

But, do we do it?
Are we?
Were we?
....
.....
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Now, I know.. life isn't as simple as good OR bad. It is unfair to judge with only these 2 words. Its unfair. HOWEVERRRRRR good a person is.....there is a bad side of him. AND of course...HOWEVERRRRRR bad a person is....there is a good side of him. So how can we judge?

If I repeat my question and say...

"ASK YOURSELF, are you a good person or a bad person"

"ASK YOURSELF"

I said...we can define good or bad distinctly. So, YOU are the only one who knows what you had done. Your intention, your motives, your purpose, your reason, your thinking, your mindset. The whole picture, you see yourself.

(im biting my lips) ***thinking*** (typing you this...)

It is certainly unfair for stranger (people except yourself) to judge whether you are good or bad. It is certainly, 100% FAIR for you, yourself, who saw the whole big picture, to judge, whether you are good or bad.

**FULL STOP**

Add up all the goods...minus all the bads...
Times all the vegetables...divide all the meats...

Answer this question.

(It is not easy to answer this question HONESTLY AND SERIOUSLY to yourself. I salute those people who dare to answer. It is not easy to admit because we really really really know what is good and bad. )

:)

***My request, read back slowly and think!***

4 comments:

Nalajas said...

well, one sentence from me : if u so busy judging people, u wont have time to love them. rite?

Anonymous said...

nobody is perfect. no matter how good a guy/girl is there is always a bad side inisde them.anyway this is just my opinion and i am a good and bad guy.
~take care~

Anonymous said...

"are you a good girl?"

"always, no?"

:)

is there a definite answer, as if asking the world is black or white in color.

If there are 2 borders, and each of us has to choose to stand on "good" or "bad" side, I would like to stand on the "good" side; who doesn't?

Comparing to some people, I believed I've the ticket to stand on the "good" side.

Yet,

Comparing to some other people, I strive to be a betterman in order to stand there more "deservely".

I believe I'll see you there :)

[dang, it's like judging a someone on where he/she will be- hell or heaven!]

:CHEERS:

人之初,性本善...

Anonymous said...

Nonetheless, consider the following scenario:

i) A good guy who has been an all time hero, did something really bad (might be accidentally) that caused mass negative impacts, before he died.

ii) A bad guy who has been an all time villain, did something really good that saved a nasty situation (might be accidentally too), before he died.

Ask yourself how "emotionally" (read as Non-logically nor theoretically) will you look at both scenes?