Thursday, December 07, 2006

Fight!

To win something, understand them.

Assume you are your opponent. Put yourself in their shoes. Understand their situation. And think what will you do, if you are the opponent. Then, knowing what your opponent will do, fight them there.

Being a great winner is being unpredictable. If your opponent assume you wrongly, meaning he can't understand you, its hard for them to count your next move. And therefore, they can't easily win over you.

Everywhere, in business, friendship, relationship, war, family, everywhere...

Is about winning or losing. I don't believe there is any win-win solution. Surely, either side must sacrifice a little bit for another to create a "win-win" which is a little bit lose and a little bit win solution.

I had always love to talk with people. Through communicating, I get to understand more people. The way every kind of people use their brain to think. FOr me, its interesting to understand people and fight them, then win of course when im given a chance to.

This makes A type of friends think, "why you mix with nerdys?"
B type of friends think, "why you mix with ah bengs?"
C type think "why you mix with smarty?"
D think "why you mix with night owl?"

Some are as bad as gangsters...some are as good as "mummy's baby".

It makes me see different part of the world. Different types of lifestyle. Different forced to make them so. Also, i see that stepping on different types of shoes, there is a reason for it. GOod or bad.

"If you can't win them, join them" Quoted from 1 of my commenter. This is the sly-est way.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

yea i agree wif ur this line."To win something, understand them"
if u cant understand ur enemy ,is like going to a war without a weapon,is a losing war.

Anonymous said...

IMO,

The ultimate winner is the one who takes opponent as friend, rather than enemy.

The ultimate winner is the one who, through "fight", know and understand oneself better; and from there, improvise ownself to be a better person.

afterall, the biggest enemy is...

you are right!!

:CHEERS:

Anonymous said...

By the way,

there are 360 degree of viewpoints in each tangible object and countless perspectives in the intangible objects, for example- emotions, actions, reasons etc...

While wearing many shoes might be a little tiring (in-and-out); yet, i reckon you must be feeling real good as you have chances to fit-in different type of shoes, especially the elegant ones.

:CHEERS: