Saturday, August 05, 2006

Long Distance Relationship

I recently read on magazine about long distance Relationship and i think it really works, because maintaining a long distance relationship is never an easy job. I personally salute those people, whom their long distance relationship work! Because a lot of efforts need to be done, and always, too many problem to face until one cannot breath! So, i should share with everybody...especially for my friend, Hazel and Wendy..."gan tong" lerrr...muaahaha


Couples who embark on long-distance relationships do so because they are convinced that the love they share is far too special to just let fade away. However, deciding to stay together when you're going to be oceans apart from each other is as much a leap of faith as it is a leap in the dark. A long-distance relationshop is hard work and keeping those feelings intact requires a great deal of effort in the form of commitment, trust, and patience. Communication, too, is key, whether you are 1 000 or 10 000 miles from each other. It is important to continue to share your thoughts and emotions as you did when you were physically together, not merely to keep each other up to date on what's going on in your lives, but also to strengthen the bonds that have held your relationship together all the while.


Here are the waaaayyyyysssss

Special way Number 1:
Surprise your honey with a hand-written love letter revealing your innermost feelings! It doesn't matter if you don't consider yourself a good writer; let love guide you and just let the word flow. Letter writing is a lost art, which is why your guy is bound to appreciate the effort you made putting pen to paper. Hand-written letters are also a lot more personal than emails. Be sure to use nice stationery and spritz your letter with your perfume before sealing the envelope.

Special way Number 2:
Fire up those sexy memories with a naughty phone conversation (use your best sex-kitten voice!) You can start by saying you miss his touch and kisses(which you really are !) and that you can't wait to feel his arms around you, make out with him(insert your sexy desire here). Take it further by exchanging sexy fantasies over the phone and recalling your past passionate moments together...share such sweet intimacies verbally can help reinforce the physical and sexual attraction you feel towards each other.

Special way Number 3:
Start a web log for your honey's eyes only. A blog is a great tool for him to stay up to speed on what's going on in your world! and gain insight into how you're coping far away from him. You can even share photos this way. A blog is an online journal, so keep the tone of your writing like that of a personal diary entry. Update your blog every couple of days, and make sure he posts comments!

Special way Number 4:
Make him a scrapbook of risque photos, complete with steamy captions! you don't have to reveal all in order to get the sexy message across.

Special way Number 5:
Send him a box of his fav snacks, mags, toiletries and anything else you think he might need. He'll be touched by the fact that you actually remember what he likes, and happier still because it probably isn't every day he gets nice surprises in the mail. Include a heartfelt note with the package, letting him know you're thinking about him, and that the contents were specually handpicked by you.

***guys can do this too!

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