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Wednesday, August 30, 2006
Wonder woman!!
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Tuesday, August 29, 2006
Teach me!
HOW HOW HOW???
I need somebody to teach me how to manage this blog laa...
1) I want my blog to have a calender.
2) I want this blog to show the recent comments
Tell me how to do the html code thinggie...GRRHHGG or any other way to do it.
Btw, commenters please select "other" when you want to submit your comment, and type your name on the box there. The other box you can leave it blank. thanks ya!
I need somebody to teach me how to manage this blog laa...
1) I want my blog to have a calender.
2) I want this blog to show the recent comments
Tell me how to do the html code thinggie...GRRHHGG or any other way to do it.
Btw, commenters please select "other" when you want to submit your comment, and type your name on the box there. The other box you can leave it blank. thanks ya!
Saturday, August 26, 2006
Its hard to understand but i give it a shot
Needless to explain, being disturb halfway when you are studying is something very &*#$^@#*@#)($@^
1 mum told her relatives "He study late at night because he said night time no people disturb and can study better"
another mum said "This ahh beng arr everytime sleep late late, wake u in the evening, like zombie now already"
FElLOW readers, done with my statement. Do you see any difference in my 2 stories? If you said no, means this never occurs to you. If your answer is yes...follow me. You will understand better i hope.
To people who don understand, 1 mum totally understand that his son needs to study late at night and she obviously feel very proud with her own son because he was studying.
THe 2nd statement's son explain to his mum...By studying at midnight, you won't be disturb...later you called "ah bengg aaarrr, come do this come do that" WTF? Addition to that very important point, midnight will not have any other entertainment! ONline? no people will online at that hour..TV? What kind of lousy show on tv at this hour? GO out? So late where you wan to go...Eat? No people cook for you, and you won't want to wake up the whole house...WHAT ELSE can you do except for sitting there obediently and study? WHereas if you do it in day light, they will be plenty of nice movies, car and places for you to go out, foods, and everything..."
ANd the 2nd mum angrily said..." Why can't he study in daylight? Its so unhealty to study midnight, sleep in the morning until evening. What kind of life. And later complain, here pain there pain...If he tells me he wants to study, I WON DISTURB him want..."
So, 2nd mother refuse to understand. As if he really won't disturb. Im so sad.....
Sad not because of she will disturb or not. But WHen you are doing something good(studying) your mum isn't proud of you when other peopls's mum can. Is okay that she isn't proud of you and instead feel shame, but worse is, she tells all your aunties and uncles, to make them have bad impression on you.
You can't help but feeling VERY sad, when everyone else in your circle think that this girl is smart, while the people closest to you felt ashame of you okay? sigh
If you don't understand my feeling, you are going to think im making small fuss up. NO, every little words will not be small if it is spoken out from your closest people. I guess that applies to me...yes? no? tell me...
For you information, now is 1.31pm. I slept at 6sth this morning, studying psychology...and my mum just wake me up to answer the Tm's survey because she don't understand malay/english. I was damn fedup. BEcause only yesterday she said, she will not disturb if i told her im studying. So what if im studying not sleeping at this hour and told her not to disturb me? Will she knock my door and wake me up because nobody else was at home at the hour? SO am i being disturb when im studying?
1 mum told her relatives "He study late at night because he said night time no people disturb and can study better"
another mum said "This ahh beng arr everytime sleep late late, wake u in the evening, like zombie now already"
FElLOW readers, done with my statement. Do you see any difference in my 2 stories? If you said no, means this never occurs to you. If your answer is yes...follow me. You will understand better i hope.
To people who don understand, 1 mum totally understand that his son needs to study late at night and she obviously feel very proud with her own son because he was studying.
THe 2nd statement's son explain to his mum...By studying at midnight, you won't be disturb...later you called "ah bengg aaarrr, come do this come do that" WTF? Addition to that very important point, midnight will not have any other entertainment! ONline? no people will online at that hour..TV? What kind of lousy show on tv at this hour? GO out? So late where you wan to go...Eat? No people cook for you, and you won't want to wake up the whole house...WHAT ELSE can you do except for sitting there obediently and study? WHereas if you do it in day light, they will be plenty of nice movies, car and places for you to go out, foods, and everything..."
ANd the 2nd mum angrily said..." Why can't he study in daylight? Its so unhealty to study midnight, sleep in the morning until evening. What kind of life. And later complain, here pain there pain...If he tells me he wants to study, I WON DISTURB him want..."
So, 2nd mother refuse to understand. As if he really won't disturb. Im so sad.....
Sad not because of she will disturb or not. But WHen you are doing something good(studying) your mum isn't proud of you when other peopls's mum can. Is okay that she isn't proud of you and instead feel shame, but worse is, she tells all your aunties and uncles, to make them have bad impression on you.
You can't help but feeling VERY sad, when everyone else in your circle think that this girl is smart, while the people closest to you felt ashame of you okay? sigh
If you don't understand my feeling, you are going to think im making small fuss up. NO, every little words will not be small if it is spoken out from your closest people. I guess that applies to me...yes? no? tell me...
For you information, now is 1.31pm. I slept at 6sth this morning, studying psychology...and my mum just wake me up to answer the Tm's survey because she don't understand malay/english. I was damn fedup. BEcause only yesterday she said, she will not disturb if i told her im studying. So what if im studying not sleeping at this hour and told her not to disturb me? Will she knock my door and wake me up because nobody else was at home at the hour? SO am i being disturb when im studying?
Thursday, August 24, 2006
Gone
Is my fellow readers all gone? I wondered im writing so much crap and is anybody reading my crap...sigh
THat keeps me really no mood to blog. And also, with my camera cabel currently left at kl, i got even moodless to blog. Lack of idea also recently...
So kelian...
Lets just make this entry short since everybody got no mood. The writer got no mood. Readers got no mood. Website also maybe no mood. Haih
THat keeps me really no mood to blog. And also, with my camera cabel currently left at kl, i got even moodless to blog. Lack of idea also recently...
So kelian...
Lets just make this entry short since everybody got no mood. The writer got no mood. Readers got no mood. Website also maybe no mood. Haih
Wednesday, August 23, 2006
Taoist
Well today is the last month of 7th month for the taoist; chinese. As far as i know...is all about burning papers for the death, feeding the ghosts that come out from hell, when the hell gates open on 7th month. And, for this year, there are 2 times 7th month. Means today is the last day for 7th month, and tomorrow will be the brand new beginning of 7th month AGAIN! whAT The hECk, i don understand...My sis said, it happened every 4 years in chinese calender.
So, as a toaist believer family, today we kinda celebrated the ghost month festival, where you buy alot of food for the ghosts, so that they will protect you, help you on the business and thank them for a smooth year. Old people said, those food can be added but can never be less. If like last year you pray TTTTHHHHIIIISSSS amount of food....so next year you have to pray TTTHHHHHIIIISSSS amount of food. You try to be thrifty, pray less...and something bad will happen to you.
That sounds funny to me.
FOr your information, i am a buddhist believer. I believe it because its so much more logical, like kharma for example. WEll, burning money papers is just the same as, taking ur hard earned money and throw it away. Don't you think those papers are cheap. EVerytime my mum went to buy, everything together for each time will cause you around RM100+. Not joking. My Aunty is selling those papers money beside TomSom(Batu Pahat) there; If your mum happens want to errrrrr you know, pray or thank those ghost, bring her there. teehehehe (advertising). Just for 1 year, i guess my parents burnt to at least RM 600+ or much mroe worth of papers money to our accendents.
THe idea of paper moneys to me...Begins with a story...
"1 day, long long time ago, somebody was very poor but business smart! He thought of creating a papers money because everyone loves their loves one so much although they had already died. So he invented the story that death people needs all kind of money, cigg, mercedez, house, maids, rolex, crocodile shirts and even laptop, and whatever u can think of! And he started to spread his "story" then, somebody started to believe the possibilities and started to burn it. More and more people do that because they really love their loves one although they had passed away. ALthough it sounded ridiculous, but they ain't gonna give chance for their loves one to suffer in hell. "
AND THEY WERE ALL CHEATED. SO that someone who created this story becomes rich. More and more believe until story becomes history, history becomes a legend, legend becomes a myth. COz NOBODY can tell me where the heck this idea comes from. AND who the heck told them the death people need all those papers? NONONO, corection, its ashes! The death one call them or sms them using their ashes handphone maybe? GOD~~~~Why don't they also burn a paper of themself, so that the death one won't be lonely down there? Hmmm...maybe burn whole family better! Then it will be no difference like they r alive. THEY will have family and friends like alive!!!!
Thats how it started. And now, burning paper money becomes a tradition. If we, the young ones don't follow...they will say we don't respect them. And stubborn and watever they can think of. TO me, is just burning our money and poluting our air. SIGH
I couldn't stand it. But hell today, i prayed as i am told...taking the josstick and say "ho hia ti kong, po pi wa tiok be pio (good buddies, let me strike toto)" and I told my "buddies" the number.
WASTED RM 5. Strike none! DAMN
***IMPORTANT!!! THESE STORIES were actually all my imagination and i hope cause no effects on others. Please DO NOT think that im discrimating coz im a taoist myself. Impossible i discrimate myself rite? is just an entry for entertaining. No other meaning. THanks
So, as a toaist believer family, today we kinda celebrated the ghost month festival, where you buy alot of food for the ghosts, so that they will protect you, help you on the business and thank them for a smooth year. Old people said, those food can be added but can never be less. If like last year you pray TTTTHHHHIIIISSSS amount of food....so next year you have to pray TTTHHHHHIIIISSSS amount of food. You try to be thrifty, pray less...and something bad will happen to you.
That sounds funny to me.
FOr your information, i am a buddhist believer. I believe it because its so much more logical, like kharma for example. WEll, burning money papers is just the same as, taking ur hard earned money and throw it away. Don't you think those papers are cheap. EVerytime my mum went to buy, everything together for each time will cause you around RM100+. Not joking. My Aunty is selling those papers money beside TomSom(Batu Pahat) there; If your mum happens want to errrrrr you know, pray or thank those ghost, bring her there. teehehehe (advertising). Just for 1 year, i guess my parents burnt to at least RM 600+ or much mroe worth of papers money to our accendents.
THe idea of paper moneys to me...Begins with a story...
"1 day, long long time ago, somebody was very poor but business smart! He thought of creating a papers money because everyone loves their loves one so much although they had already died. So he invented the story that death people needs all kind of money, cigg, mercedez, house, maids, rolex, crocodile shirts and even laptop, and whatever u can think of! And he started to spread his "story" then, somebody started to believe the possibilities and started to burn it. More and more people do that because they really love their loves one although they had passed away. ALthough it sounded ridiculous, but they ain't gonna give chance for their loves one to suffer in hell. "
AND THEY WERE ALL CHEATED. SO that someone who created this story becomes rich. More and more believe until story becomes history, history becomes a legend, legend becomes a myth. COz NOBODY can tell me where the heck this idea comes from. AND who the heck told them the death people need all those papers? NONONO, corection, its ashes! The death one call them or sms them using their ashes handphone maybe? GOD~~~~Why don't they also burn a paper of themself, so that the death one won't be lonely down there? Hmmm...maybe burn whole family better! Then it will be no difference like they r alive. THEY will have family and friends like alive!!!!
Thats how it started. And now, burning paper money becomes a tradition. If we, the young ones don't follow...they will say we don't respect them. And stubborn and watever they can think of. TO me, is just burning our money and poluting our air. SIGH
I couldn't stand it. But hell today, i prayed as i am told...taking the josstick and say "ho hia ti kong, po pi wa tiok be pio (good buddies, let me strike toto)" and I told my "buddies" the number.
WASTED RM 5. Strike none! DAMN
***IMPORTANT!!! THESE STORIES were actually all my imagination and i hope cause no effects on others. Please DO NOT think that im discrimating coz im a taoist myself. Impossible i discrimate myself rite? is just an entry for entertaining. No other meaning. THanks
Monday, August 21, 2006
Relationship; 30 degree direction view...
To me, Relationship is like a battle for girls...
IN the very begining, when u 1st sense the feeling of love and being love...you thought love is just so pure and beautiful...you believe that the world is beautiful and amazing. But later, you found that it is not that simple. You gave up.
After you calm down and think about everything that had happened, you regreted...you thought you shouldn't have given up so easily because nothing comes easy...but it was too late for you to realise...
Then, you started another relationship. A relation that you think can give you a more secure feel. And later you found that you trusted a wrong person. He was another rascal although he seems to be very good. The 2nd relationship was a mess. You learn not to judge a book by its cover. But you didn't dare to give up for you were afraid to make the same mistake 2nd time. So you told yourself to be patient. Believes love can change a man. Ended up, you found that is impossible. NO man can bear years and years of changing because of their loves one. Because by the time, they won't love you already.
After thinking much...you thought love is to give. Not acting childish. Love required trust not questioning. Love needs patient and benovelence. Talk things out when you were unhappy not quarrel...and being mature in a relationship.
But guys later take advantage of you mature-ness. Not appreaciating and taking it for granted. Thought you wouldn't be angry while actually you are crying at home. Didn't dare to show your angriness and sadness. Not because of what, because all you wanted is this relationship to be better. Acting calm, pretending nothing happened.
So should be carry on?
AHAH go to temple and be a nun better...
After everything...trying again and again...i got a conclusion. THE SERIOUSNESS, taking a relationship seriosuly will only make you sad and depressed for a meaningless meaning. ALthough i choose to believe and believe, again and again...im so tired of waiting, hoping, listening, keep going...
I found that the Cheryl without anyone, who goes out there fooling around, getting a few hours fake-loves is so much more happier, exciting and free of worrieis. At least, you don't hope for that kind of relation. You don't sad for it.
Life is so fake.
IN the very begining, when u 1st sense the feeling of love and being love...you thought love is just so pure and beautiful...you believe that the world is beautiful and amazing. But later, you found that it is not that simple. You gave up.
After you calm down and think about everything that had happened, you regreted...you thought you shouldn't have given up so easily because nothing comes easy...but it was too late for you to realise...
Then, you started another relationship. A relation that you think can give you a more secure feel. And later you found that you trusted a wrong person. He was another rascal although he seems to be very good. The 2nd relationship was a mess. You learn not to judge a book by its cover. But you didn't dare to give up for you were afraid to make the same mistake 2nd time. So you told yourself to be patient. Believes love can change a man. Ended up, you found that is impossible. NO man can bear years and years of changing because of their loves one. Because by the time, they won't love you already.
After thinking much...you thought love is to give. Not acting childish. Love required trust not questioning. Love needs patient and benovelence. Talk things out when you were unhappy not quarrel...and being mature in a relationship.
But guys later take advantage of you mature-ness. Not appreaciating and taking it for granted. Thought you wouldn't be angry while actually you are crying at home. Didn't dare to show your angriness and sadness. Not because of what, because all you wanted is this relationship to be better. Acting calm, pretending nothing happened.
So should be carry on?
AHAH go to temple and be a nun better...
After everything...trying again and again...i got a conclusion. THE SERIOUSNESS, taking a relationship seriosuly will only make you sad and depressed for a meaningless meaning. ALthough i choose to believe and believe, again and again...im so tired of waiting, hoping, listening, keep going...
I found that the Cheryl without anyone, who goes out there fooling around, getting a few hours fake-loves is so much more happier, exciting and free of worrieis. At least, you don't hope for that kind of relation. You don't sad for it.
Life is so fake.
Thursday, August 17, 2006
Addiction @smoking
Sigh...
Being additive in something is SOOO bad!
in movies, DOTA, alcohol, AND especially smoking...
I recently just found out that a very very close friend of mine started smoking...I donno how am I to help him, but i had tried my best..
It just 1 month, u know...1 month i didn't talk to him, then he everything changed...how sad and heartbroken am i to found out that he started to smoke...
People who knew me, know exactly that i seriously black listthose smokers...not that i think smokers are bad people...but i hated the smell, the wastage of money and the needy for "it" for the rest of your life...and most importantly...it harms your health AND other people' s health.
At first when he accidentally told me, i was so shocked...much more to be sad and...sigh...i donno how to express myself...Of all people, NEVER in my wildest dream, i thought this fellow would be smoking...
2 months ago, he was a guy that never touched alcohol...thinking clubbing is bad...and to your surprise...im the one who introduce and made him try the 1st sip of liquar...coz i think everyone should try...and yet later, he found that he really like the feeling of "high" and...i can't believe that i throwed him into a sea...
What I thought was in the begining that this fellow is quite stable..coz so far all my friend were okay with these thing...they are able to control themself...i mean, not being addicted to that feeling...but who knows...you never know...nothing is impossible...i believe now...
Now, because i introduce him alcohol, then he started to go clubbing, and got drunk and do that kind of STUPID things without thinking ahead...sigh...he started smoking...well, i just hope, pills and drugs is not the next thing...
I know that to kill that curiousity is to try...you may try...but not addicted to it! How can he thinks that smoking is not a bad thing? It is a symptoms to him, see, 1st he started with alcohol, addicted, smoking, addicted...WHATS NEXT?
Challenging is something that lead you to hell also...he said he was challenge...thats why he did lots of stupid things in that club despite of smoking...I was damn sad to hear that...why must you let challenge? Be proud of not doing it...If lets say people challenge you " i Bet you don dare to smoke" or something like " I dare you do this" just tell him to fuck his ass off and say " YEAHH I DON DARE...I don dare to smoke...SO WHAT?" What is there so difficult? In fact people will respect you more coz you are not easily influence and determine with your decision!
sigh...IM not jokingly sad for him. He told me, promised me that he would stop...well, i believe him, and i hope he will make it although out of 3 ppl that promised me that he would stop so far, none of them did it. You know who you are...
At 1st he told me, he is just a social smoker...MY GOD, thats what he told everyone after i asked few of my friends and they just kept quiet with that answer. I straight away shoot him, "FUCKUP LA social smoker! You thought i 3 years old is it?"
THEn, he said he very "fan" thats why...Tell me who in this world don't have "fan nao?" He is only 19 years old...still don't have family, wife burden...and he tell me he very FAN? WTF? So he expect when he is 25 or 40 then he will stop coz he is no longer that "fan" like now?
19 years old and he is smoking 1 box(14cigg if i wasn't mistaken) a day. By the age of 40, tell me how many cigg he wants to smoke? Some more he only smoke for 2 weeks by now....ooo I can't believe it...pls tell me everything is just a lame joke...I won't be angry...
Im not fuss up over this small matter...Is just that i REALLY hope he can stop and thinking of what is coming next really makes me shiver...I sms him every day to encourage him as a friend to stop...I know is hard...BUT NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.
Please stop smoking! It will seriously waste your money and is such a bad image for his handsome look plus nice personality...
*Kenneath* if you read this, i treated you as a best friend, so is truly heart breaking to understand that. Please stop it for goodness sake. Sigh, WHatever happens, life goes on. Please think twice and be responsible for yourself. You are no longer small kid, so i expect you to know what is right and what is wrong. Kenneath, you knew me. wo jiang de dao, zuo de dao. I said I will give you a slap and end our friendship if you let me see with my own eyes, you smoke in front of me" When im saying this, I hope it will not happen..and pls don't let it happen. Coz i don wish to do it! But don't force me.
Btw, if you are a smoker yourself, FUCK OFF and don't ask your friend to smoke okay? I've tried lots of people, asking them to let me try. 1 of the most impressive reaction was "NO way" "why, just trying for curiosity ma...only 1 puff, no harm" " I myself knew it is a bad thing...not even a chance of possibility i can let you to like it"
Stop making more people to suffer of that stupid addiction.
Till then, cheers!
Being additive in something is SOOO bad!
in movies, DOTA, alcohol, AND especially smoking...
I recently just found out that a very very close friend of mine started smoking...I donno how am I to help him, but i had tried my best..
It just 1 month, u know...1 month i didn't talk to him, then he everything changed...how sad and heartbroken am i to found out that he started to smoke...
People who knew me, know exactly that i seriously black listthose smokers...not that i think smokers are bad people...but i hated the smell, the wastage of money and the needy for "it" for the rest of your life...and most importantly...it harms your health AND other people' s health.
At first when he accidentally told me, i was so shocked...much more to be sad and...sigh...i donno how to express myself...Of all people, NEVER in my wildest dream, i thought this fellow would be smoking...
2 months ago, he was a guy that never touched alcohol...thinking clubbing is bad...and to your surprise...im the one who introduce and made him try the 1st sip of liquar...coz i think everyone should try...and yet later, he found that he really like the feeling of "high" and...i can't believe that i throwed him into a sea...
What I thought was in the begining that this fellow is quite stable..coz so far all my friend were okay with these thing...they are able to control themself...i mean, not being addicted to that feeling...but who knows...you never know...nothing is impossible...i believe now...
Now, because i introduce him alcohol, then he started to go clubbing, and got drunk and do that kind of STUPID things without thinking ahead...sigh...he started smoking...well, i just hope, pills and drugs is not the next thing...
I know that to kill that curiousity is to try...you may try...but not addicted to it! How can he thinks that smoking is not a bad thing? It is a symptoms to him, see, 1st he started with alcohol, addicted, smoking, addicted...WHATS NEXT?
Challenging is something that lead you to hell also...he said he was challenge...thats why he did lots of stupid things in that club despite of smoking...I was damn sad to hear that...why must you let challenge? Be proud of not doing it...If lets say people challenge you " i Bet you don dare to smoke" or something like " I dare you do this" just tell him to fuck his ass off and say " YEAHH I DON DARE...I don dare to smoke...SO WHAT?" What is there so difficult? In fact people will respect you more coz you are not easily influence and determine with your decision!
sigh...IM not jokingly sad for him. He told me, promised me that he would stop...well, i believe him, and i hope he will make it although out of 3 ppl that promised me that he would stop so far, none of them did it. You know who you are...
At 1st he told me, he is just a social smoker...MY GOD, thats what he told everyone after i asked few of my friends and they just kept quiet with that answer. I straight away shoot him, "FUCKUP LA social smoker! You thought i 3 years old is it?"
THEn, he said he very "fan" thats why...Tell me who in this world don't have "fan nao?" He is only 19 years old...still don't have family, wife burden...and he tell me he very FAN? WTF? So he expect when he is 25 or 40 then he will stop coz he is no longer that "fan" like now?
19 years old and he is smoking 1 box(14cigg if i wasn't mistaken) a day. By the age of 40, tell me how many cigg he wants to smoke? Some more he only smoke for 2 weeks by now....ooo I can't believe it...pls tell me everything is just a lame joke...I won't be angry...
Im not fuss up over this small matter...Is just that i REALLY hope he can stop and thinking of what is coming next really makes me shiver...I sms him every day to encourage him as a friend to stop...I know is hard...BUT NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.
Please stop smoking! It will seriously waste your money and is such a bad image for his handsome look plus nice personality...
*Kenneath* if you read this, i treated you as a best friend, so is truly heart breaking to understand that. Please stop it for goodness sake. Sigh, WHatever happens, life goes on. Please think twice and be responsible for yourself. You are no longer small kid, so i expect you to know what is right and what is wrong. Kenneath, you knew me. wo jiang de dao, zuo de dao. I said I will give you a slap and end our friendship if you let me see with my own eyes, you smoke in front of me" When im saying this, I hope it will not happen..and pls don't let it happen. Coz i don wish to do it! But don't force me.
Btw, if you are a smoker yourself, FUCK OFF and don't ask your friend to smoke okay? I've tried lots of people, asking them to let me try. 1 of the most impressive reaction was "NO way" "why, just trying for curiosity ma...only 1 puff, no harm" " I myself knew it is a bad thing...not even a chance of possibility i can let you to like it"
Stop making more people to suffer of that stupid addiction.
Till then, cheers!
Sunday, August 13, 2006
female vs male
Life in this century often make us very tired. We, as human with flesh often wish to have someone to share the up and down with. People may have different point of viewing things. Like me, I think, human should have someone to share the happiness, the intimacy with each other and the closeness to another human. Or else, what's the meaning of life?
Today i went out with a lost touched friend, and he told me, he prefered to be single...I didn't voice out my opinion because i thought, well, thats him, apllies to him and he is happy with his life. He said, being single, he need not worry or care about his partner's feeling. Yeah, that kind of correct...he added but, sometimes he felt lonely...What I dislike of him saying is that, he said, girls will do whatever thing (that you can think of) when they are lonely. How sad am I when i couldn't protest myself, as a female!!! And sadly, I was doubting myself whether female are fragile creatures that cannot stand loneliness?
Im puzzled...and i wonder can i, am i able to stand alone...i bet i can but WHY? Live life cool remember? Another friend of mine used to say "be a contented winner and a happy loser". He once lose to the battle of relationship, so you fall once then you will never want to stand up because you are afraid of falling down again? It sounds rather ridiculous to me...
I believe he said female as a fragile creature that cannot stand loneliness because his ex-girl-friend was with another guy when they are apart...But that doesn't applies to all the female...Judging female like that is so unfair...and if we really want to argue this, come on! They will be tons and tons of same case but happened on male...so what now? female and male are cheap because they cannot stand loneliness?
Chill dude, everyone makes mistake...give a space for forgiveness to human...because you are also a human. :)
***I don't deny, having someone to share my life, this thought came across due to my growing environment factor. So afterall, is just a piece of my thought. No harm
Today i went out with a lost touched friend, and he told me, he prefered to be single...I didn't voice out my opinion because i thought, well, thats him, apllies to him and he is happy with his life. He said, being single, he need not worry or care about his partner's feeling. Yeah, that kind of correct...he added but, sometimes he felt lonely...What I dislike of him saying is that, he said, girls will do whatever thing (that you can think of) when they are lonely. How sad am I when i couldn't protest myself, as a female!!! And sadly, I was doubting myself whether female are fragile creatures that cannot stand loneliness?
Im puzzled...and i wonder can i, am i able to stand alone...i bet i can but WHY? Live life cool remember? Another friend of mine used to say "be a contented winner and a happy loser". He once lose to the battle of relationship, so you fall once then you will never want to stand up because you are afraid of falling down again? It sounds rather ridiculous to me...
I believe he said female as a fragile creature that cannot stand loneliness because his ex-girl-friend was with another guy when they are apart...But that doesn't applies to all the female...Judging female like that is so unfair...and if we really want to argue this, come on! They will be tons and tons of same case but happened on male...so what now? female and male are cheap because they cannot stand loneliness?
Chill dude, everyone makes mistake...give a space for forgiveness to human...because you are also a human. :)
***I don't deny, having someone to share my life, this thought came across due to my growing environment factor. So afterall, is just a piece of my thought. No harm
Thursday, August 10, 2006
A simple family
Family, undoubtedly are the closest creatures for a human. Well, at least, it is suppose to be. But is it? Answer me
Are your family the one who help you when you needed someone most?
Did your mum called to make sure you still walk in piece when you are away from studying?
Or are they the one who realised something is wrong with your face when you are feeling sad?
Did they even look at you properly in your face and realised you have put up a make up?
Do they even know you are having a big problem, you've cried everyday attempting to commit suicide?
Did they forbid you to go out or question you whatever hell you can think of when you say you want to go out?
Do they tell you not to lose face when you fail your exam...like you wanted to or purposely failed the exam?
Are they pointing the faults on you when they didn't know what had happened exactly on you and assume what they heard from rumours is correct?
Do they know the feelings, try to put themself in your shoes when you brave up yourself to tell them your problems, even though you knew they will not understand but you still try?
Can somebody understand that the kind of hurt from family is so much more painful compared to you were hurt by friend?
Can a happy family man/woman know the pain of a person from a broken family?
Can a normal person please don't see a family problem to be a small deal...and is a stupid damn little little hello kitty problem?
Can a happy person don't think they are making a small problem big fuss coz they are not...they are hurt and they are very sad?
Do you know how much family problem can affect a person when he/she is growing?
Do you know how much love a girl/a boy can only receive from a broken family?
Do you know how dependable that girl/boy is to his/her friend when he/she have nobody in her family?
Who are you to blame when you don't have a normal family like others?
Who to tell when you are so damn envy on people that can play and talk everything with their family members?
Haihh...how sad is life. I always say, they are so many things worth to be appreaciate than thinking of sad things. So to you, my friend, BUCKED UP!
Are your family the one who help you when you needed someone most?
Did your mum called to make sure you still walk in piece when you are away from studying?
Or are they the one who realised something is wrong with your face when you are feeling sad?
Did they even look at you properly in your face and realised you have put up a make up?
Do they even know you are having a big problem, you've cried everyday attempting to commit suicide?
Did they forbid you to go out or question you whatever hell you can think of when you say you want to go out?
Do they tell you not to lose face when you fail your exam...like you wanted to or purposely failed the exam?
Are they pointing the faults on you when they didn't know what had happened exactly on you and assume what they heard from rumours is correct?
Do they know the feelings, try to put themself in your shoes when you brave up yourself to tell them your problems, even though you knew they will not understand but you still try?
Can somebody understand that the kind of hurt from family is so much more painful compared to you were hurt by friend?
Can a happy family man/woman know the pain of a person from a broken family?
Can a normal person please don't see a family problem to be a small deal...and is a stupid damn little little hello kitty problem?
Can a happy person don't think they are making a small problem big fuss coz they are not...they are hurt and they are very sad?
Do you know how much family problem can affect a person when he/she is growing?
Do you know how much love a girl/a boy can only receive from a broken family?
Do you know how dependable that girl/boy is to his/her friend when he/she have nobody in her family?
Who are you to blame when you don't have a normal family like others?
Who to tell when you are so damn envy on people that can play and talk everything with their family members?
Haihh...how sad is life. I always say, they are so many things worth to be appreaciate than thinking of sad things. So to you, my friend, BUCKED UP!
Saturday, August 05, 2006
Long Distance Relationship
I recently read on magazine about long distance Relationship and i think it really works, because maintaining a long distance relationship is never an easy job. I personally salute those people, whom their long distance relationship work! Because a lot of efforts need to be done, and always, too many problem to face until one cannot breath! So, i should share with everybody...especially for my friend, Hazel and Wendy..."gan tong" lerrr...muaahaha
Couples who embark on long-distance relationships do so because they are convinced that the love they share is far too special to just let fade away. However, deciding to stay together when you're going to be oceans apart from each other is as much a leap of faith as it is a leap in the dark. A long-distance relationshop is hard work and keeping those feelings intact requires a great deal of effort in the form of commitment, trust, and patience. Communication, too, is key, whether you are 1 000 or 10 000 miles from each other. It is important to continue to share your thoughts and emotions as you did when you were physically together, not merely to keep each other up to date on what's going on in your lives, but also to strengthen the bonds that have held your relationship together all the while.
Here are the waaaayyyyysssss
Special way Number 1:
Surprise your honey with a hand-written love letter revealing your innermost feelings! It doesn't matter if you don't consider yourself a good writer; let love guide you and just let the word flow. Letter writing is a lost art, which is why your guy is bound to appreciate the effort you made putting pen to paper. Hand-written letters are also a lot more personal than emails. Be sure to use nice stationery and spritz your letter with your perfume before sealing the envelope.
Special way Number 2:
Fire up those sexy memories with a naughty phone conversation (use your best sex-kitten voice!) You can start by saying you miss his touch and kisses(which you really are !) and that you can't wait to feel his arms around you, make out with him(insert your sexy desire here). Take it further by exchanging sexy fantasies over the phone and recalling your past passionate moments together...share such sweet intimacies verbally can help reinforce the physical and sexual attraction you feel towards each other.
Special way Number 3:
Start a web log for your honey's eyes only. A blog is a great tool for him to stay up to speed on what's going on in your world! and gain insight into how you're coping far away from him. You can even share photos this way. A blog is an online journal, so keep the tone of your writing like that of a personal diary entry. Update your blog every couple of days, and make sure he posts comments!
Special way Number 4:
Make him a scrapbook of risque photos, complete with steamy captions! you don't have to reveal all in order to get the sexy message across.
Special way Number 5:
Send him a box of his fav snacks, mags, toiletries and anything else you think he might need. He'll be touched by the fact that you actually remember what he likes, and happier still because it probably isn't every day he gets nice surprises in the mail. Include a heartfelt note with the package, letting him know you're thinking about him, and that the contents were specually handpicked by you.
***guys can do this too!
:) something to share? lets comment!
Couples who embark on long-distance relationships do so because they are convinced that the love they share is far too special to just let fade away. However, deciding to stay together when you're going to be oceans apart from each other is as much a leap of faith as it is a leap in the dark. A long-distance relationshop is hard work and keeping those feelings intact requires a great deal of effort in the form of commitment, trust, and patience. Communication, too, is key, whether you are 1 000 or 10 000 miles from each other. It is important to continue to share your thoughts and emotions as you did when you were physically together, not merely to keep each other up to date on what's going on in your lives, but also to strengthen the bonds that have held your relationship together all the while.
Here are the waaaayyyyysssss
Special way Number 1:
Surprise your honey with a hand-written love letter revealing your innermost feelings! It doesn't matter if you don't consider yourself a good writer; let love guide you and just let the word flow. Letter writing is a lost art, which is why your guy is bound to appreciate the effort you made putting pen to paper. Hand-written letters are also a lot more personal than emails. Be sure to use nice stationery and spritz your letter with your perfume before sealing the envelope.
Special way Number 2:
Fire up those sexy memories with a naughty phone conversation (use your best sex-kitten voice!) You can start by saying you miss his touch and kisses(which you really are !) and that you can't wait to feel his arms around you, make out with him(insert your sexy desire here). Take it further by exchanging sexy fantasies over the phone and recalling your past passionate moments together...share such sweet intimacies verbally can help reinforce the physical and sexual attraction you feel towards each other.
Special way Number 3:
Start a web log for your honey's eyes only. A blog is a great tool for him to stay up to speed on what's going on in your world! and gain insight into how you're coping far away from him. You can even share photos this way. A blog is an online journal, so keep the tone of your writing like that of a personal diary entry. Update your blog every couple of days, and make sure he posts comments!
Special way Number 4:
Make him a scrapbook of risque photos, complete with steamy captions! you don't have to reveal all in order to get the sexy message across.
Special way Number 5:
Send him a box of his fav snacks, mags, toiletries and anything else you think he might need. He'll be touched by the fact that you actually remember what he likes, and happier still because it probably isn't every day he gets nice surprises in the mail. Include a heartfelt note with the package, letting him know you're thinking about him, and that the contents were specually handpicked by you.
***guys can do this too!
:) something to share? lets comment!
A round and applouse for PhYcHo.....................................at last i found my username back..muaahaha
if you guys had been wondering what im into these FEWWWW days...
1) Im working like a bull in Alliance bank
2) I secretly take up another job, working Southern Bank, credit card sales(direct access) for a roadshow at Hilton Hotel...
3) I celebrated my BIRRRRRTTHHDAAAYY Y ( unfortunately, this year, not many ppl remembered...sobz sobzz..so sad)
4) I go to college...abt to start studying now
5) Quit Allaince bank job, coz it pays too humble...haha
6) n TADDDAAAA im back home, updating my blog!!!!
OK pals...finished about wat i had done, now comes to what i will be doing.....
Firstly, i will be studying for my coming psychology exam..hopefully i will pass...pls pray for me lol..n then, start learning how to master this blog...coz i will want to post you guys damn lots of pictures!!!! my camera's memory burst already...then, carry on selling the direct access card...everybody!!! AS long as you are a degree holder, or an existing platinum card holder...den u are welcome to HELP me...coz all you have to do, is sign the application form, and the credit card is free for you with NO CONDITION, 0% Balance transfer and 0% installment interest at RM500 single receipt...and alot more!! or if you guys are interested to apply any other bank's card, you are very welcome to me...HELP ok? teehehe
btw, im planning on a holiday to langkawi, redang and probably sabah if my financial status allows me to... so anyone got nice, cheap and comfortable recommandation???
Oh ya, SIngapore iDOL.. I really hope Paul Twohill will win...or Johnathen also not bad...are both of them still in the contest?1 in a million is getting more n more sucks! WHY? aihh Project superstar was so much more better...and im looking forward to "i wanna be a model" Catch the K.Lumpur audition, coz u might see someone familliar there...wahahha~~~ LOTS of lengzai...is like almost the whole malaysia's lengcai is there...n HOT girls too...sorry i didn't dare to grab pictures...hehe
awwww i miss blogging...comming up next : Long Distance Relationship
if you guys had been wondering what im into these FEWWWW days...
1) Im working like a bull in Alliance bank
2) I secretly take up another job, working Southern Bank, credit card sales(direct access) for a roadshow at Hilton Hotel...
3) I celebrated my BIRRRRRTTHHDAAAYY Y ( unfortunately, this year, not many ppl remembered...sobz sobzz..so sad)
4) I go to college...abt to start studying now
5) Quit Allaince bank job, coz it pays too humble...haha
6) n TADDDAAAA im back home, updating my blog!!!!
OK pals...finished about wat i had done, now comes to what i will be doing.....
Firstly, i will be studying for my coming psychology exam..hopefully i will pass...pls pray for me lol..n then, start learning how to master this blog...coz i will want to post you guys damn lots of pictures!!!! my camera's memory burst already...then, carry on selling the direct access card...everybody!!! AS long as you are a degree holder, or an existing platinum card holder...den u are welcome to HELP me...coz all you have to do, is sign the application form, and the credit card is free for you with NO CONDITION, 0% Balance transfer and 0% installment interest at RM500 single receipt...and alot more!! or if you guys are interested to apply any other bank's card, you are very welcome to me...HELP ok? teehehe
btw, im planning on a holiday to langkawi, redang and probably sabah if my financial status allows me to... so anyone got nice, cheap and comfortable recommandation???
Oh ya, SIngapore iDOL.. I really hope Paul Twohill will win...or Johnathen also not bad...are both of them still in the contest?1 in a million is getting more n more sucks! WHY? aihh Project superstar was so much more better...and im looking forward to "i wanna be a model" Catch the K.Lumpur audition, coz u might see someone familliar there...wahahha~~~ LOTS of lengzai...is like almost the whole malaysia's lengcai is there...n HOT girls too...sorry i didn't dare to grab pictures...hehe
awwww i miss blogging...comming up next : Long Distance Relationship
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