Believe

Before that, read "My University life" from Amelia...I really laugh out!

Yey!! The blogger me has come back! CHEERS...thanks for still being here...

I've written quite a number of post about believes. If 1 day I met a psychologist, the 1st question I am gonna ask him/her is about believe. A further explaination about believes, how to believe and the deep elaboration about this thing. Its so interesting yet mysterious at the same time.

Come to think of it. We were thought to believe in god since we know ABC. We haven't seen god and we are clueless about the existence of it. Yet, we believe it and the culture are being passed down.

Is believe a practice or what?

When you believe you can do it, you practice it, and by luck you really happened to make it? Look, before someone make it, he/she first have to believe he/she can do it. Yep, we knew this...but how?

(ITS SOOO INTERESTING)

For god, it is a culture that is being passed down by our parents, so it becomes a practice then it turns to believe. If lets say, ( i can't find a strong example @@)... for example, lets say...yaya I found it!

Lets say, your parents call you stupid all the while...scolding and yelling stupid at you since you were babies..it becomes their practice and you believe it. Maybe is by accident, or low in confidence that you did badly in exams, grade poorly...AND THEN, you are seriously convinced that you are stupid because you think its proven. You never even try to study because you simply think you are so stupid. Anyway, you've been called so since.

(that reminds me of Julie in the book Perfect by Judith McNaught)

Well, the truth may be that because you never believe you are not stupid, so you never even work hard or even pay attention in class...how you gonna score better unless you are a genius? If you don't believe it, you will not even give you yourself a chance to be better.

BUT, that idea of stupid were being implemented in your brains since you were born. And you believe it because your result are the proof of it. Of coz you are not aware that you never work hard thats why you did badly. Simply because at that time, you also believe that even you work hard, you will not do any better...BECAUSE YOU ARE STUPID. And then...the worse is, everybody else, your teacher, your classmates and people who knew you, believe you are stupid too because of your poor grades.

So you are even more convinced that you are stupid...And you concluded you are stupid.

Now you've seen the whole picture and you know what's happening rite?

The part I need help is, how to make this person(who believes she is stupid)...ok...lets just name her Julie, since I am taking that example...

So the question is, how to make Julie believes that she is not stupid. COMMENTS!!!!! Pls...think about it seriously...